I wrote this in the comments on the blog, but my husband and I are committed to raising children that welcome feedback and don’t internalize it. Today’s generations have no sense of self and the criticism of others defines their self-esteem.

The Oxytocin Chronicles

We’re raising a generation of pussies. There. I said it.

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When I was a junior in high school, I had the most amazing AP English teacher. Her name was Ms. Wei. She prefaced the class by saying that she would grade us fairly, and that these grades would not always be A’s.

“I get that you and your parents all think you all are ‘special snowflakes,’ but I will grade you based on your writing, and if your parents email me complaining about these grades, I will ignore them.”

Now Ms. Wei was a little blunt for some (I freaking adored that woman, and I don’t know anyone who didn’t), but she brought up a good point.

Millennials: your parents won’t say it, and your peers won’t say it because it seems every little thing is sending you all to a therapist because you’re just sooooooo victimized, but

Get. The…

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